Tuesday, June 8, 2010

Ghana Garb & Dinner Friends

Sunday after church with our Ghanaian dresses on...we are true Ghanaians now...that's what they said at least! :)






The Ghanaian Girls (Tawnee, Mama Carolyn, and I)

Last night we invited Rose, a friend from the nearby village, and her son Abednago, over for dinner. We had chicken and rice burritos, and Abednago seemed to enjoy it, but I'm not so sure about Rose. It's interesting how we think we'll have this great meal, and they probably just prefer the akpale they have everyday! haha...oh well, it was fun to have them over...and of course we had to round off the evening with Rice Krispie treats which were a hit! :)

Abednago was constantly taking care of his mom-- just making sure she got enough to eat...so cute!







Adorable!

Saturday, June 5, 2010

This is not fake!!!



...and I think the picture will do it justice! YUCK!!!

Friday, June 4, 2010

Rainy Day Adventures...


Yesterday after school Tawnee and I took off on a bike ride while the kids were in siesta. It started to drizzle as we were leaving, and the clouds were pretty threatening, but against our better judgment we decided to still go! ...and it was awesome. The rain steadily picked up and we got thoroughly drenched! It was so great to ride through the rain, but even better was the COOL AIR!!! Rainy season is here...remind me again why I'm coming home NOW??? (Oh yeah, 'cuz I miss you all like crazy! Okay...) So, I think all the Ghanaians got a kick out of watching the crazy oburonis ride through the POURING rain. :) When we got back we really couldn't get any more wet, so we grabbed the frisbees and found the boys! Frisbee and 500 are so much better in the rain! :)
...10 days! Please pray that my flight won't get cancelled (British Airways is striking.) and that I finish strong here. :) See you on the other side of the "lake"!

Food for Thought...

Today Tawnee and I were driving into Accra to go to immigration (for her, not me!), and it was pouring buckets, which meant the bumpy, dirt roads were filled will small lakes which we got to drive through! The people who stand in the middle of the roads selling bread, blankets, phone cards, and food items were still out despite the rain, and we watched one lady squeeze between 2 cars, while running through puddles of mud, WITH a big box of fried something-or-other on her head....now that's dedication!

It really made me think about the tough lives that so many Ghanaians lead. They work sunrise to sunset just to be able to get enough money for their food for that day. So much of their existence is centered around survival, which is so different from Americans, which I would say in general live lives centered around enjoyment, entertainment, and being comfortable. Because we've been blessed with so much, we come to expect things to go well. We consider certain things, like clothes, food, medical attention, education, etc. to be "rights". We have the right to these things, and if we don't get them there's disappointment and frustration. However, in Ghana, if the people do get these things they are seen as "gifts" not things to be expected. This generally results in a much more grateful attitude, because they don't expect to get everything they want or even "need", so what they do get is seen as a privilege or gift. On the other hand, for people like myself who are use to having things go right and leading a relatively easy life, when things go wrong we are easily frustrated and discouraged.

These thoughts were sparked when an ambulance passed us and we realized that this is not a common occurance. There are not many people who would call an ambulance in an emergency and expect it to come in a timely manner...something we take for granted in America. Therefore, in a lot of ways they are forced to be more dependent on God, the one in control anyways. For Christians here anyways, life takes more of an eternal view. In reality, all of our lives are so short, and we never know how much time we have left, but I feel like the people here understand that better.

"As for man, his days are like grass,
he flourishes like a flower of the field;
the wind blows over it and it is gone,
and its place remembers it no more."
(Psalm 103:15-16)

How would life be different if I had no expectations? If I saw every good thing as a gift from God...not something that I deserve?

"EVERY good and perfect GIFT is from ABOVE, coming down FROM THE FATHER of the heavenly lights, who does not change like shifting shadows." (James 1:17)

Being so use to having everything at my fingertips, I'm not even sure that's possible to shift my mindset, but I do want to remind myself that my treasure is in heaven, and my life here is to bring God glory! Reminds me of the parable of the rich fool (Luke 12:13-21). "...a man's life does not consist in the abundance of his possessions." (verse 15) If we store up treasures for ourselves here on earth and die tonight, what will happen with our treasures and what kind of impact have we made during our time on earth??? Just some food for thought...

Thursday, May 27, 2010

Snakes-n-Lovin'...

Those two words should not be in the same phrase! :) These boys sure look cute (I'm sure that's the word every teenage boy wants to be called!) and innocent...I'll give 'em the cute, but the innocent...no way! So, tonight Tawnee and I came back from Bible study with the girls and the boys had placed this (dead) cobra on our step to scare us. Well, thankfully I'd already gone inside, so Tawnee was the one to be punked! :) However, I went out to check it out, and let's just say the boys had a little fun "lunging" it toward me-- which was then followed by loud laughter after my shrieks! Oh, gotta love 'em!
On another note, Bible study with the girls has been going really well. Tawnee takes about 1/2 of the girls and I have the other half. We've been talking about loving your neighbor the last few weeks, so please pray that God would really work in the girls' hearts and give them a desire to love those around them...what a beautiful place this would be if there was just a little more love to go around! :)

Monday, May 24, 2010

The Countdown...


Nope, I'm not sick! That's good news, but even better is the fact that 3 weeks from today I'll be leaving on a jetplane heading back to WI for the summer, and I can't wait! My (day)dreams are filled with grilling out, playing cards, bike riding, and playing tennis with my family, getting together with friends, rollerblading, swimming (if I'm not too cold!) playing ultimate frisbee, RELAXING, enjoying non-95 degree days (Although today Tawnee and I put my thermometer in the sun just out of curiosity...114 degrees!!!), electricity, and a refrigerator...and all that goes along with that one! :)
You may be wondering, "Why the picture of the malaria pills?" Well, I came with 2 of these big bottles full and another small bag, and they sort of became a visual countdown. I knew they'd be gone by the time I went home. Whenever I had visitors come, I counted out the number until they'd be there, and that was my smaller countdown. There were days (mostly in the beginning)where the container seemed like a bottomless pit, but now looking back I feel like the time went pretty fast. I thank God for getting me through the hard times and giving me encouragement through my visitors at just the right time. I've fallen in love with the kids and learned so much from them about what it means to truly serve.
When I think about my time here, these verses from Colossians 3:12-14 really seem to sum up what I've been learning to do here, "Therefore, as God's chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, KINDNESS, humility, GENTLENESS, and patience. Bear with each other and forgive whatever grievances you may have against one another. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues PUT ON LOVE, which binds them all together in perfect unity."

Sunday, May 23, 2010

The Big Birthday Bash!

Yesterday Tawnee and I planned a birthday party to celebrate all the birthdays of the kids who live at Haven of Hope. I guess the pictures will do better than words to show that a fun time was had by everyone! Above Douglas and Bismark are doing a fine job decorating the cupcakes on Saturday morning!
Comfort all dolled up with her face-paint...don't you just want to squeeze her?!?

I had three friends who work at American International School in Accra come and help out with the party. It was fun to see them again and great to have them help out. Lauren is an art teacher, so she did a print-making art activity with the kids, which seemed to be a hit! Above is Attah...and in case you didn't see the first one, here she is again. :) (Can't figure out how to erase it!)


Tug-o-war!
This is one of my students, Enoch. He is a very energetic, goofy, and loveable boy with a cute sense of humor. (I'm sure by this picture you could never imagine him being distracted in class!) ;)

Attah & MaaAbena gearing up to blow out their candles...oh wait, the wind did it for them...multiple times! :) It was the thought that counts.

And now for the highlight of the day...it's not truly a fiesta without without 4 pinatas!

Look at how well-mannered and structured our kids are (don't look at the left-hand side!)! :)
We ended the day with some limbo, a sardines eating competition (which the boys just savored as extra dinner food...only in Africa), and an outdoor movie in the activity center. It was such a fun day, and so great to see the kids all smiles all day!